it is nice to help friends with their rocks,
but not everyone is a friend.
some people do not want to carry any of their own rocks.
these people will push and pull at you trying to get you to carry their rocks for them.
they will tell you they are too busy or important or even hurt to carry their rocks....
they may tell you their rock is soooo heavy and you should help, because you made their rock heavy and it's heavier every second...they may accuse you of being selfish and uncaring for not carrying their rock.
if you are a very kind, empathetic person, this may work on you.
but you know what, Honey?
you already have a lot of rocks of your own.
leave it
but not everyone is a friend.
some people do not want to carry any of their own rocks.
these people will push and pull at you trying to get you to carry their rocks for them.
they will tell you they are too busy or important or even hurt to carry their rocks....
they may tell you their rock is soooo heavy and you should help, because you made their rock heavy and it's heavier every second...they may accuse you of being selfish and uncaring for not carrying their rock.
if you are a very kind, empathetic person, this may work on you.
but you know what, Honey?
you already have a lot of rocks of your own.
leave it